Misunderstandings...

Name one relation where there is no misunderstanding. Boss and employee..are you kiddin' me? Best friends...stop joking. Lovers or a married couple...world wars are always based on misunderstandings, aren't they?
But misunderstandings aren't so simple. They may dissolve in a moment or they may take a lifetime or even more. You can't ignore misunderstandings..but you can avoid them. Give in.
I did not exactly follow this rule till a few months back..but someone really special taught me that the best way to avoid fights is to give in.
Some may take this as a blow to their ego. But in a relationship, if you are egoistic..the relationship can never be successfull. Best friends...you don't need to throw your attitude around someone who knows you so truly...boss and employee ( well you love being employed don't you?)...husband and wife..in such a pure relationship..just where does ego come in.
You may have arguments. But you should know the limit. Stretching it too much may hurt the other person. He may not say it then..but will always remember your saying that to him. And later when he is alone, all these thoughts will come in at once and accumulate in his subconcious and then that person's love and affection for you may lessen. Or worse, subconciously, he may doubt you.
I know, maybe, coming from a teenager this may sound immature and bizzare but people, sometimes, we kids can understand things better than grown-ups. Because we don't complicate them so much.
Pay heed.
And comment.
Cheers.
Luv ya people.
Mwah!
~nanya~